Overcoming something horrific in life is never easy. Once the experience passed by, the surreal feeling of gratifying relief kicks in and by then we know that everything, literally everything will be ok.
What I’ve learn through life is most of us worry too much and focuses our mind to that portion life brings about. In panic and worry we tend to drown ourselves in a confuse state. This is normal. However coming to the point where I would like to share is; no matter how life treats us, focus solely on the goal we would like to achieve. Acknowledge the feeling that are felt and turn it around for it to be used in achieving the targeted goals.
Life is about strategy and the only way to have the correct strategy is by clarifying the goal/ objective. Even then, the strategy chosen might not be the correct one, yet nevertheless if its lived then it will be learned therefore nothing is at stake versus worrying and not doing anything about it.
I was told before to take life easy, don’t over do/push myself. What’s the measurement of over doing? What’s the comparison of pushing my self too much?
I guess the advice I should have gotten were suppose to be strategies my life towards my goals. Maybe, the word strategy it self is scary. It tends to be assumed negatively. Strategy seems to have this meaning that we will do anything to achieve our goals. Where for me strategy is only laying down the path I would like to take in order to get to the desired destination underlining it with my values.
So friends, brevity with the right strategy implemented leads to our success. If you don’t trust me, look around, really look around, model the successful people you know, ask them if possible if they, themselves implemented strategy in Life.
